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On an unassuming Saturday night in June, I stepped into a scene inspired by Eyes Wide Shut : masquerade masks, attendees in various states of dress, and flowing alcohol poured by a half-naked bartender. This was a sex party hosted by Snctm , an "exclusive" members-only sex club. While the night was a mix of cocktail-hour chatter and X-rated debauchery, energy buzzed throughout. Women in lingerie and men in tuxes told me how excited they were that "Snctm was back," but not just the club itself.
Nightlife was back, as was sex with various partners and strangers and anyone in between thanks to COVID vaccines and loosened public health restrictions. The mood at Snctm is a microcosm for how many people are feeling in this not-quite-mid-not-quite-post-pandemic era we're in. As I let Google Maps guide me from the subway to Snctm's penthouse in lower Manhattan, it was impossible not to pick up on partiers' and daters' elation to go out and experience hot vax summer.
Nuzzling couples dotted train cars and outdoor restaurants, and those on the move held hands as they hustled — no doubt eager to reach their destination. At the same time, however, memories of our pandemic experiences can be just as visceral as our desire to move past them.
We can't forget over a year of wearing medical masks, of wondering whom in our circles was COVID conscious. Moving into our "new normal," people are both more sexually experimental and more cautious. Joe Kort , a sexual relationship therapist, said that he and the therapists that work for him were busier than ever during the pandemic. Even as vaccinations rose and restrictions loosened, singles were excited to "get back out there" — but that it was short-lived.
Kort, who has a Ph. The pent-up energy Kort heard about from clients is often paired with a newfound priority to be more careful. This aligns with the research, too. Lehmiller, who has a Ph. D in social psychology, and Kinsey partnered with sex toy shop Lovehoney for the Summer of Love survey, where they analyzed Americans' sex lives and attitudes now that COVID vaccines are widely available. Of the 2, adults surveyed between May and June , 43 percent are fully vaccinated. Of those, 40 percent say they're taking less risks sexually than they had before the pandemic.
Further, 46 percent of those vaccinated say they're more likely to communicate with partners about same-sex practices in the future. In addition to an increase in caution, Lovehoney and Kinsey's data also reflects a rise in kink and exploration. Just over half of respondents said their sexual interests shifted during the pandemic, and 73 percent of those people said they're kinkier now. Twenty percent noted that they're more interested in attending a sex party or visiting a sex club now than pre-pandemic. As both Kort and Lehmiller explained, it's difficult to be aroused during times of high stress and anxiety.
One way that people can cope with this, according to Lehmiller, is trying new and immersive sexual activities that allow you to focus on the moment; sex parties can fit that bill. Since its return with a May masquerade, Snctm has seen a spike in memberships and applications according to their managing director, who asked their name not be included for privacy reasons.
Their May and June parties sold out, and the managing director said interest grows with each subsequent event. Snctm required proof of vaccination or a negative COVID test for their May masquerade, according to their managing director, keeping with New York's guidelines at the time. The precaution allowed the club to exceed limits of people indoors, but both the May and June parties were capped at 99 people probably to keep with their "world's most exclusive members-only club" descriptor.
By the time the June masquerade occurred, city officials had lifted all restrictions. Daniel Saynt, self-described chief conspirator of NSFW, said the club's membership doubled during the pandemic to over 6, Some days, NSFW receives 50 to applications for new members. Saynt attributed at least some of this growth to the club's virtual parties over the pandemic, where non-New Yorkers had a chance to experience what NSFW had to offer albeit, through a screen. Now that many people are vaccinated, NSFW is poised to expand even further: Saynt's goal is to build 50 clubhouses in major cities like Chicago and Philadelphia in addition to New York in the next few years.
Saynt said there's a certain feeling at recent NSFW parties where people are grateful to be through the worst of the pandemic at least in New York, where 70 percent of adults have received at least one vaccine, but that's not the case elsewhere in the country or around the world , and happy that they can go out again. He's seen a stronger drive to go to events, sex-related or not. People are coming to these events with a different sense of appreciation.
This is akin to what Snctm members told me at their June masquerade. One woman I spoke to said she had been to five parties — including the one in May, and others pre-COVID — and none of them had the electricity of that one. Saynt believes the sex party scene is larger now. There are more parties popping up, he said, especially for the queer community. With the rest of the summer, Halloween, and New Years coming up, Saynt thinks the demand for these events will remain high throughout Snctm, meanwhile, is increasing their party cadence.
Since May, they've been hosting monthly parties in New York City. The managing director anticipates the return of bi-monthly Los Angeles parties by August. This influx of people wanting to sexually explore coincides with an interest in alternative relationships. Non-monogamy has been on the rise since before the pandemic, and there's reason to believe the practice will only trend upward. For instance, Feeld a sexual exploration app for both singles and couples saw a percent increase among women and a percent increase among men with words describing ethical non-monogamy ENM or polyamory in their profiles from to , the app's communication manager Lyubov Sachkova told Mashable.
Saynt agrees that more people will begin practicing non-monogamy, especially millennials and Gen Z. He referred to the near future as the "buckle-up years," as he believes non-monogamy and the type of sexual exploration that goes on at NSFW will become more mainstream. While this is an exciting time, Kort urges people to remember the good that came out of the dating culture shift during the pandemic, such as slowing things down and taking time to get to know potential partners.
For now, however, with the pandemic still fresh in our minds, it seems that many are indeed branching out while remembering to be mindful. By the end of the Snctm masquerade I attended, the only people out on the street below the penthouse were attendees. Among the chatter, partiers expressed gratitude that they could indulge in such activities again — and gratitude for how safe they felt. Social Good. A glimpse at Snctm's penthouse. Credit: snctm. Jake Gyllenhaal explains the strange way his new Netflix movie was shot "Antoine directed the entire movie from a van a block away.
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