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A few years go by and life feels more chaotic than ever. It can begin to seem like the tyranny of the urgent always takes precedence over spending time together. You may start to struggle with feeling unhappy in your marriage, but is there anything you can do about it? Your investment in intense love. The same is true of our partners, Weiner-Davis says. These actions lead to connection.
Over time, however, one person might start taking the other person for granted and stop doing the things that lead to connection. And when this happens, irritability is a by-product. They micromanage how they load the dishwasher, how their partner chews their food and how they do laundry. Although spontaneity may no longer be possible, people can plan carefree time together.
They can get a babysitter or barter with a friend to watch the kids. She always encourages people to be the one to tip the first domino if they are unhappy in their marriage. Another mistake people make is putting all of their emotional eggs into one basket—assuming their spouse will satisfy every emotional need. Find other ways to get your needs met. Be with friends.
Get a new hobby. Once people feel more inner peace and happiness without the expectation that their spouse has to do all the heavy lifting, their spouse starts looking better. Consider areas of your marriage that do work and be grateful for them. I told her, you can always get out of your marriage, but why not get all your ducks in a row first. She shared that she had an interest in horticulture and that a friend had offered her a job. I suggested she take the job and get herself financially stable. Her newfound happiness in her own life created new, more positive feelings about her husband.
Instead of blaming your spouse for your unhappiness , find healthy ways to fill the void. This will make your spouse look a lot better to you. All too often people walk away from a perfectly good marriage because they go through a season of being unhappy. If you find yourself in this place, take the time to examine what is really going on. The odds are probably in your favor that making a few changes could actually get your marriage back on track and on the road to thriving.
For a clear understanding of what defines an abusive relationship, . Save my name, , and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Men want connection on a physical level before they invest in meaningful conversations or quality time together. Both people end up going to their respective corners and waiting for the other person to change. Even when things seem pretty hopeless, Weiner-Davis says there is a remedy.
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